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Why are relationships so “liquid” today?
We live in an era where people intensely want to love, but are increasingly unable to sustain a relationship. This contradiction has been called liquid love , inspired by sociologist Zygmunt Bauman, and it describes our current landscape well: fragile bonds, easily discarded, where the search for love exists, but the emotional willingness to build that love is limited. The imagined ideal vs. real love Today, many people enter a relationship carrying unrealistic expectation
Suellen Dias
Dec 12 min read
The Psychology of Resentment: Why It Stays and How It Hurts
Resentment is one of the most misunderstood emotional experiences in relationships. People often think it is "just anger," when in reality it is far more complex - and far more painful. Resentment is what happens when hurt doesn’t find a place to heal. It grows quietly, like emotional sediment, layer upon layer of past moments that were never processed, validated, or repaired. What Is Resentment, Really? Clinically, resentment is a mix of: Anger toward the person who caused
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Nov 252 min read
Why is it so difficult to deal with criticism?
Dealing with criticism is one of the most universal emotional challenges - regardless of age, personality, or context. For many people, especially those who are very dedicated, perfectionistic, responsible, and used to doing everything “the right way,” receiving criticism can feel like a threat to their personal worth. It's not about the criticism itself, but about what it means internally . Why does criticism hurt so much? In Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), we understand
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Nov 172 min read
When problem solving turns into personal attacks
Every couple faces challenges - differences in opinions, habits, or expectations. But when the relationship is under stress, partners often fall into a trap: confusing problem solving with personal attack. When emotions run high, our brain tends to protect us. Instead of staying curious about what’s really happening, we move into defense mode - trying to prove a point, protect our ego, or avoid feeling blamed. This is when conversations shift from “How can we fix this?” to
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Nov 71 min read
Emotional Dependence: when love becomes a need
Emotional dependence isn’t just about “loving too much.” It’s about needing someone to feel whole - to the point that our mood, sense of worth, and emotional balance depend on how that person treats us. In the early stages of a relationship, it’s natural to feel connected, excited, and even a bit anxious. But when emotional dependence sets in, the connection turns into dependence : the fear of losing the other person starts to control how we think, feel, and act. From a cogn
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Oct 282 min read
How our thoughts shape our emotions, behaviors, and relationships
Have you ever noticed how two people can go through the same situation and react completely differently? One feels angry, the other...
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Sep 252 min read
Why do couples lose Connection?
Every couple has its own story, and each relationship faces unique challenges. Still, many partners share a similar experience: over...
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Sep 182 min read
After all, what is "self-awareness?"
When we talk about self-awareness , it seems like a simple term, almost a cliché. But in practice, seeking self-awareness is much more...
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Sep 101 min read
Understanding attachment: how our first bonds shape us
Have you ever wondered why some people feel so secure in relationships, while others struggle with trust, fear of rejection, or the...
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Aug 202 min read
Intimacy Across Cultures: How Emotional Connection Changes
When we think about intimacy, many people picture physical closeness or romantic gestures. But intimacy is also about feeling emotionally...
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Aug 132 min read
“It was just a text”: Why betrayal hurts (even when it seems small)
Manuela discovered a hidden conversation on Antônio's cell phone. Deleted messages, suggestive emojis - nothing too explicit, but enough...
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Jul 232 min read
We won't always agree: how to cope with conflicts in relationships
She wanted to talk. He wanted silence. After a misunderstanding during dinner with friends, Ana was irritated by the way Daniel responded...
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Jul 173 min read
Speaking the Same Language: Why Communication Is a Challenge in Intercultural Relationships
Anyone in a relationship knows that communication isn't always easy. And when the couple comes from different cultures, it can be even...
Suellen Dias
Jul 91 min read
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